Our very own episode subject this week is Best Sex very our company is referring to… the very best gender we have had! We are joined by Autostraddle blogger, poet, and reporter Dani Janae while we get into some steamy stories followed closely by an in-depth conversation regarding what can make good sex quality. Therefore we fork out a lot period back at my intimate hang ups that I could or may not have in fact done most work with come early july!

Appear for the lesbian movie-themed game, stay for your coming.

SHOW NOTES

+
The 200 Most Readily Useful Lesbian+ Videos listing
that Christina pulled the online game from.

+ If you haven’t study Dani’s
Anatomy of a Mango
series you probably must.

+
This is the essay
I typed regarding the individual We talk about on the episode. It is merely already been two years but so much changed!

+ The summer months has gone by therefore however stan Olivia Rodrigo. See the
“intense” songs movie
.

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Dani:

The cat in addition to puppy happened to be from inside the space and there ended up being cat-and-dog hair every-where. So, I found myself seriously having an allergic effect although we had been making love. But the climax ended up being like chef’s hug. It was the most wonderful, perfect knowledge physically.

Christina:

I question whether or not it’s some thing in regards to the hives that really added slightly

je ne sais quoi

compared to that orgasmic experience.

Theme tune performs

Drew:

Introducing

Hold off, Is This a Date?

Christina:


Wait, Is This a romantic date?

is an Autostraddle podcast all about, you thought it, online dating.

Drew:

Yay! I Adore matchmaking. I’m Drew Gregory. I am an author for Autostraddle, and a filmmaker, and just general trans gay person across the net and… I was planning say globe, but it’s really similar to l . a . and ny.

Christina:

I really like this globe trotting gay character you’re taking on listed here in 2021.

Drew:

I want that. Yeah, it is for future years.

Christina:

Yeah. I will be your own some other host, Christina Tucker, additionally an author for Autostraddle, deranged loud gay on the web. Simply kind of away here, writing, becoming homosexual, undertaking what we can every minute to attempt to sort out this existence that individuals’re residing.

Drew:

You are really doing it. You are truly operating during that existence.

Christina:

Honestly, it really is all I am able to carry out. That’s all We have, this is the only option.

Drew:

I absolutely have respect for the attempt.

Christina:

The try to live?

Drew:

Yeah.

Christina:

Yeah. Really, really courageous of me to also try it. You aren’t incorrect, you’re not completely wrong. Could you be thinking about playing just a little video game today, Drew?

Drew:

Oh my personal Jesus, I’m so excited. Can’t hold off to see that which you have actually for me.

Christina:

I am so pleased you said that since you definitely need say yes, for the reason that it’s section of this package we’ve produced right here. So you may be familiar with the reality that on autostraddle.com, the web site, we a summary of 200 lesbian flicks.

Drew:

I realize of it. I might have written it.

Christina:

Maybe you have. Everything I did is extract an array of 10 of those movies. I’ve stored them to the most truly effective 50. I will give you the land keywords and phrases as determined by users on IMDb and you’re gonna must do you know what flick really.

Drew:

Okay. I recently want the audience, wherever you will be, to find out that I am not saying planning pull-up the list. I believe that is correct, am We assuming that’s correct in the way I should really be respecting this game?

Christina:

In my opinion that is extremely respectful and I think that’s fair. I also types of count on that the is certainly going be something pops into the mind quite simple for you, I didn’t get too kept.

Drew:

I have a dreadful storage, but yes, I’m going to make an effort to set men and women up for reasonable objectives.

Christina:

Reasonable adequate.

Drew:

Anytime i really do really well, it is similar variety of blow all of them away, while Really don’t do just fine, they’ll be want, “Well, she pointed out…” Anyways, continue. Let us start this.

Christina:

Let us start. I shall start out with pretty general people and I will get much more certain as we get, because several are literally what the movie is in two terms. Therefore weare going to make an effort to start out with a wider knowledge here.

Drew:

Everyone loves it.

Christina:

Our very own basic movie: medicines could be the basic land phrase. New york, nyc will be the 2nd. Hate criminal activity could be the next.

Drew:

Okay.

Its Everywhere Me Personally.

Christina:

Yes, really! See, we knew you’d be able to do this.

Drew:

Great.

Christina:

We positively realized you’d be capable of this.

Drew:

In addition, i recently should let individuals know that definitely very underrated lesbian flicks, while really need to view it. And Leisha Hailey for the reason that motion picture is my phone back ground for a couple of years now. Therefore merely an enjoyable small reality indeed there for every people.

Christina:

We like that. Okay, motion picture number 2. “Unknown pops,” organ donor, cemetery, loss of child. Oh, she’s thinking.

Drew:

I believe like i will seriously fully grasp this considering — wait, as yet not known father, death of daughter, organ donor. Oh,

Exactly About My Mama.

Christina:

Truth be told there really, see.

Drew:

Someone else of my favorites.

Christina:

It is extremely exciting observe what folks determine tend to be a land key phrase that they have to move because of these movies. I am additionally not reading the types being simply lesbian because that seems similar to a gimme.

Drew:

That is the way I put together a lot of the listing since if you appear up lesbian movies, that which you discovered had been the outdated Autostraddle list or some lists that aren’t extremely detailed, thus I would in fact scroll through databases associated with keyword phrases of lesbian, lesbian kissing, this stuff like women kissing, these items, in order to find films where they are maybe not regarded as a lesbian film since they are more interesting, or maybe just slightly less immediate, and that is how I discovered a few of the motion pictures that are today in the list, very full circle.

Christina:

Listen, IMDb keyword phrases arriving convenient for everyone always. This package, people moved untamed about one. Very merely gonna study some arbitrary terms for you. Hey, whistling, girl, black colored sporting events bra, lake, stomping out a cigarette, working collision.

Drew:

Working accident? Oh, I Imagined I Got it following, really—

Christina:

Colder, in parentheses, the heat.

Drew:

Because initially I was likely to say

Foxfire,

then again the on-the-job accident changed me up. At work accident.

Christina:

Would you like even more?

Drew:

Yeah.

Christina:

Vehicle crashes through a fence.

Drew:

Could it be

Miseducation of Cameron Article?

Christina:

It is really not.

Drew:

Because working crash could be a really awful method of describing this 1 of this gay since you’re attempting to become maybe not gayness, attempts to mutilate by themselves or does mutilate on their own. That’d end up being pretty intense, but i did not know using the IMDb thinkers. Okay, hold off, this can be fooling me personally up.

Christina:

Do you want some more from myself?

Drew:

Truck through a fence. I am sure it’s something that I am simply not… Yeah, keep going.

Christina:

Reference to a school loan. These are generally therefore peanuts.

Drew:

Wait, have you seen this film?

Christina:

I’ve come across this film.

Drew:

Could it possibly be crazy that I’m not getting hired?

Christina:

It really is some crazy. I will present a year, if you like per year.

Drew:

In the event that you provide me a year, We’ll absolutely obtain it.

Christina:

Okay. 2016 will be your year.

Drew:

2016. Okay, tell me the goals.

Christina:

It is the movie,

Certain Females,

2016.

Drew:

Oh! Yeah.

Christina:

I must say I believed vehicle crashes through a wall would produce, but In addition just love these folks only pulling-out nouns and simply being like, “male.” Is what you think?

Drew:

Yeah.

Christina:

Okay.

Drew:

That’s a fantastic motion picture. I want to note that once more.

Christina:

It is. Its outstanding movie.

Drew:

Yeah, it’s an extremely fantastic motion picture.

Christina:

Fine, the subsequent movie. Kissing whilst having intercourse.

Drew:

The most effective type both, perhaps, somehow.

Christina:

Attraction, dude farm.

Drew:

Is-it

Desert Hearts?

Christina:

Yeah. And so I had been like, “Okay, you have got to have that then one.” One other one I was probably supply ended up being — “nipples” was the really prominently included. And I also was actually like, “Sure, this is certainly section of that film.”

Drew:

Jesus,

Desert Hearts.

You understand how absolutely all of these frustrating folks out there wanting to be Shane. Sorry, i am talking about, if you’re trying to be Shane, we accept you. But me personally, my annoying thing is that i am trying to end up being Cay. Cay in this film is similar to that is who i believe of since the types of lesbian that I want to end up being.

Christina:

Yeah, that is true, can confirm. Fine, tend to be we prepared for the then one?

Drew:

Yeah.

Christina:

Season—

Drew:

Hold off, no, We have something else to state about

Desert Hearts.

Christina:

Certain.

Drew:

Following the last time we re-watched it on top of the summertime, it sort of sent myself into hook spiral, and that I texted this more mature semi-closeted person who I experienced type of started tentatively attempting to day or day whatever, and who had vanished for four weeks, and that I had given up on because I don’t plead men and women to date myself. But i simply ended up being want, “Okay.” We viewed

Desert Hearts

and I ended up being love, “i assume possibly often people have their particular internalized whatever.” And that I texted the lady and that I stated, “If we never ever satisfy, In my opinion you’re regret it.” And in addition we performed fulfill, with the intention that’s exactly what

Desert Hearts

may do to you personally.

Christina:

Wow, which is a truly strong endorsement.

Drew:

We probably should never have came across. We most likely need merely allow it be. But anyways, shifting, after that flick.

Christina:

Our very own then film, metaphysics, world during orifice loans — exactly what that implies, it’s your responsibility — senior school football, Chicago, Illinois.

Drew:

Oh,

Princess Cyd.

Christina:

There you choose to go.

Drew:

Which is an excellent motion picture. I like that We keep getting astonished through this listing that I got a rather powerful hand-in ranking. It’s not my position, but I did have a huge suppose inside the ranking and that I love it.

Christina:

Yeah. I recently wish to be obvious to you personally and the listeners — again, I chose through the leading 50, so they’re really good people. On the good people, they’re great people. I Am Aware Drew’s going to constantly say this really is an excellent motion picture after each and every one, but—

Drew:

They can be good movies, you guys should enjoy all of them.

Christina:

Fine. Brief top with heels.

Drew:

Think it’s great.

Christina:

Cock blocked, mini dress with shoes.

Drew:

After all, will it be

Blockers?

Christina:

It is really not. That might be too effortless, i believe, for

Blockers.

Drew:

I Do Not keep in mind any miniskirts, but—

Christina:

Feminine back nudity.

Drew:

Okay. Wait one minute. Okay, exactly what an extra. Okay, dick blocked, mini skirt, feminine backside nudity.

Christina:

Mm-hmm (affirmative). Break party.

Drew:

Could it possibly be

Certain?

Christina:

It is not.

Drew:

No, I would love some slack dancing world.

Christina:

I love a rest dancing world in

Certain.

Drew:

Some slack moving world.

Christina:

I’ll present: English lady abroad.

Drew:

English woman overseas? This might be another one in which i’m we seriously need to have it.

Christina:

I will need to provide you with a pretty clear any eventually, in order thatshould help.

Drew:

Okay, offer myself an obvious one.

Christina:

Undercover agent.

Drew:

Could it be

D.E.B.S?

Christina:

It is far from

D.E.B.S.

It is right beside

D.E.B.S.,

variety of film smart. Discover another, intrigue.

Drew:

Okay, hold off, there’s not many genre motion pictures.

Christina:

You will findn’t, that is true.

Drew:

Undercover agent. Really, maybe they are using the term, will it be

The Handmaiden?

Christina:

It isn’t.

Drew:

Okay, I didn’t think so. Undercover representative.

Christina:

Are you wanting the season?

Drew:

I Was Thinking that… Certain.

Christina:

Your season is 2017.

Drew:

Undercover representative.

Christina:

I’m therefore sorry. You’re feel therefore dumb whenever I say the name of this one.

Drew:

Oh no.

Christina:

I am actually sorry about that, but that’s particular simply the method the cookie crumbles.

Drew:

Oh, it is

Carol.

Christina:

No, it’s not

Carol.

Drew:

No, it says 2015.

Christina:

Yes, I’m Sure that. It isn’t really

Carol.

Drew:

But there is an undercover — the man, that’s where I was considering. Okay, what exactly is it? Why does it generate me feel foolish?

Christina:

It Really Is

Atomic Blonde,

you dummy.

Drew:

Oh, that’s into the top 50?

Christina:

Truly. I’m sure.

Drew:

Oh, okay.

Christina:

Fine. We have four a lot more, you ready?

Drew:

Really don’t believe that foolish for the reason that it one I… I mean, I think

Atomic Blonde

is actually enjoyable, but I don’t think it really is great. That would not inside my individual very top 50. I really do want the entire world to find out that i am aware that

Carol

was released in 2015. My personal head harm. I just wish the world to know that. Anyways, carry on.

Christina:

Society now knows that, the record happens to be reflected. All righty: restaurant, sense of scent, novelist, mention of the a hamburger, mention of the Larry King, based on memoir, alcoholic, theft, girl wears eyeglasses, residing alone, destroying evidence.

Drew:

The mention of Larry King is really—

Christina:

It’s a very weird one.

Drew:

Mention of the Larry King, ruining evidence.

Christina:

Cat.

Drew:

Oh, will it be

Could You Actually Ever Forgive Me Personally?

Christina:

It’s.

Drew:

I needed to get me. I happened to be really in a slump there.

Christina:

You nailed it. I do believe you have there, I believe you completely got there. All right, three even more, our leading three. In my opinion these people is going to be simple for you because i understand you.

Drew:

Great, fine, really…

Christina:

I know, but I’m stating, are you ready?

Drew:

Okay, yeah.

Christina:

Psychological state, drug overdose.

Drew:

Would it be

Foxfire?

Christina:

No. Photographer.

Drew:

Oh,

Higher.

Christina:

There we get. Tattoo, lady gang.

Drew:

So is this

Foxfire?

Christina:

Yeah.

Drew:

Oh, I’m sure

Foxfire.

Christina:

I found myself like, “Oh, she is going to only hold speculating

Foxfire

until I just provide her

Foxfire.”

Drew:

The trick is i really like

Foxfire

and I hold planning to think about

Foxfire.

Christina:

I mean, whomst among us?

Drew:

Angelina Jolie, gosh.

Christina:

Fine. This 1, one among them is actually—

Drew:

This is actually the final one?

Christina:

This is basically the last one. It is our finally one. Church, assertion, household connections.

Drew:

Will it be

Miseducation of Cameron Post?

Christina:

It isn’t really.

Drew:

Would it be

But I’m a Cheerleader?

Christina:

It is, yes.

Drew:

Yes. Comedic

Miseducation of Cameron Article.

Christina:

Jokes on jokes. So as that ended up being the overall game I’m calling, how good really does Drew Know Lesbian films???

Drew:

I enjoy how great we’re coming up with names for the games.

Christina:

Yeah, that it is mortifying that we also had written that into the concept of a Google Doc, the thing that was I thinking? That doesn’t even appear great in my Google Docs.

Drew:

I got a very good time and I’m actually glad that i got eventually to inform all audience about all flicks which they should watch. Therefore’ll place the listing inside show records.

Christina:

Completely.

Drew:

I would personally say that the list has grown to be at a place where I think you might get anything regarding seeing all 200 motion pictures. Initial form of record, there seemed to be some material on the website that I found myself not very happy with. There still is items that I think that I do not truly but I think that as one, there’s a specific quality assurance after that most recent enhance that I believe extremely pleased with and I also believe they’re all really worth watching.

Christina:


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